A time to think things over...

A time to think things over...

In life, there would always be that phase where in you're going to question yourself things that are happening with you.  Examples of which are, why is this happening to me? I have done everything and I'm still not happy, I'm fed up and I want to give up. These negative thoughts you ask yourself are all part of life experiences where in you go out and find someone to blame, to point fingers to, or find that group of friends/buddies where in you vent away all of your issues just to feel better. am I not right? Oh c'mon don't raise an eyebrow on me.

I'm not really here to say that these negativity are bad, or that it didn't happen to me at one point in my own life.  But why don't we try and make a positive outcome out of all these.  I know it's not easy but it's a work in progress to find a solution to any problem one person may have.  Rather than to rant, we can try and think how we can do things better.  It's only normal to express yourself in a crazy way, but only for a certain period of time, to me it's very normal. We tend to release whatever we are feeling and let it all out for all to hear.  Sometimes, we even to stupid things to add to the drama.

I think people need to assess themselves in times like this, to see a clearer view of a situation. This may help you answer the questions you are looking for. Also, you would need to remember that everyone have different take on certain issues, so please don't try finding out solutions from other people. At the end of the day, you are the only one who can solve your own problem.  That is what I tell most people I know. Try to stop and think about how you really got there in the first place, then maybe when you follow your tracks you'd be able to find, answers, where things went wrong, when it started, and how will you able to save it and make it right.  When this happens, you'll have a different perspective and maybe, just maybe you'll be back on track and be happy again.

---Julienne---